Love is a many strange thing...
When you're feeling someone, often times, they can't or won't commit to you and when you want nothing to do with someone else, they practically stalk you or call you so many times that you're tempted to change your phone number. Why is this!??
I'm somewhere between getting over someone and not wanting to be bothered at all and honestly at this time, I just want to take things easy. I know that I'm rusty when it comes to the dating scene but damn, is this what it really is?
I met this man who wants to be married. I should be stoked right? NOT!! But obviously he believes that simply because HE wants to be married, He's a successful doctor and HE wants me to possibly fill this position, that I should just bow at his feet? I spent an entire date with this man where he blabbed on about him self, ALL his accomplishments, etc...and NEVER once asked me anything about me, most importantly IF I WANT to get married. How can one be so self-absorbed? I spent the entire time imagining myself in a loveless, sexless, bored to tears existence with this dude..even after I told him I don't want all that..he continues to call and text every day claiming to MISS me, WTF?? So basically I had to put on my mean girl face and tell him how I really feel cause this nice girl thing was getting me no where but annoyed.
This other cat, same deal; calls almost everyday and expresses how much he wants to "get in another relationship with a good woman that he can marry because the last chick could not stop her friendships with her male friends". LOL! Hell, I'm that chick!! Has that deterred him at all? Of course not. My girl Bunz always tells me that men love whores, bitches and other women that are just bad for them...I'm starting to think that maybe she's right.
This is my place, my space to capture my thoughts, desires, experiences and just let go. Please come in, make yourself comfortable, and comment when moved to; but leave your judgements at the door.
1 comment:
people just grab on to good people...especially when they are at that point and ready...i had this happen to me, dude was a really good dude, but NOT the dude for me...and he was basically a good dude but not the dude for me...and because i am a good person he just was like locked in...
here is the thing that i am learning, from my counsins, brothers, homies, whatever...good people are not that easy to come by...and more importantly women with some sense and a good head on her shoulders isn't that easy to come by either...
eventually there will be someone you are mutally attracted to again...you may however have to deal with a couple of busted psycho dudes first, which might mean giving out the business card with the work # ONLY for a while until you get to know them...HA
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